Day: February 7, 2011

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So, Do You Love To Lie?

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Lying is always wrong!  Let’s me rephrase that…Lying is necessary in life.  We can’t all be honest or be honest with everything, we need to lie sometimes.  I mean I don’t practice lying, but surely I at least lie to myself once in a while.  Ok, I am lying right now, I lie to myself ALL THE TIME…gosh you got it out of me.  I don’t lie to others though.  I try to avoid all situations in which I have or might have to lie to someone.  Consider my technique, I “Ninja’d” myself from the situation.  Ninja is a technique or a phrase I enforce as an action verb to mean how I stealthy did something.

For example, “John asked me if I wanted to go to the bank with him, but I Ninja’D a lie about me having too much paper work to do to go with him.”

Or another example, “I watched how Jenny Ninja’D out of doing the dishes after dinner last night, by sneaking out the door to go to work.”

Anyways, back to lying.  I hate lying, but if lying was necessary to save your life or someone’s else life, I think you can be forgiven for that, if you admit to lying down the line.

Here are couple lies I don’t like:

1. Lying that you don’t got the money you owe me.
2. Lying to get out of work, when you really could have came in.
3. Lying that you haven’t stolen from me. (Those deserve a straight punch in the face, maybe even a beat-down or some handcuffs, 🙂 )
4. Lying to you parents. (Come on, really, you going to lie to your moms?, well your pops I can understand)
5. Lying to a girlfriend or boyfriend that you ain’t cheat. (Come on, own up stop lying, take it like a man, umm or a woman)

Well there are many other lies out there, but hey, I can’t list them all.  But anyways I lie, but I lie to myself.  Then again I try to validate my lies, in hopes to make them true.

Here are my favorite lies, or lies I tell myself:

1. I can work 3 days straight without feeling tired.
2. I don’t need to sleep today.
3. I can do XYZ that many more push ups today.
4. I can pay off this credit card by the end of the year
5. I can lose 5 lbs in 2 days…(umm sorry this one was very much proven it can be done, I thought I would let you know, :))

My lies motivates me.  Also when someone lie to me, makes me so much more cautious and curious at the same time and just as much motivated to uncover the lie.

What is your favorite lie?  Do you love to lie? Do you feel lying is necessary?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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Shall I admit I am too busy for a girlfriend, ummm NAH [Part I]

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It may be a surprise to other’s when I admit I am not always busy, people just always catch me at the wrong time.  I am sorry if I made plans to do something before they decide to hit me up, but it is just how I plan my days, weeks and goals.  If I look back in my past, I have always been a busy person, but I also manage to get everything else done in my life regardless.  When I say busy, busy for me is just me accomplishing goals or experiencing new things within a set amount of time.   So too busy for a girlfriend? nope, It depends on how much time the girlfriend is requiring.  I guess in relationships there are comprises, but darn it, in everything there is a comprise but what are we comprising is the major difference.

If I had a girlfriend, or when I had a girlfriend I always had time for her, I wouldn’t be a very good boyfriend would I if I didn’t, correct?  But its the understanding of each others goals that makes a difference and the avoidance of drama and better use of communication that makes things possible.  I want a lot of life, and I don’t sit down and wait for things to happen, I go out and achieve them simple and plain.  I would expect my girlfriend, well I would like my girlfriend to do the same also.  I can’t speak for everyone needs within a relationship, I can only speak for mines.  I am young, ambitious, independent and determined.  I want to put in a boat load of work now, until say age 30 so my future can be simpler and very light of hardships.  So sitting at home whining and moaning and groaning about simple matters, don’t really impress me.  So I guess a great match for me, I would say is a person that fits my similar aspirations or can accept my motives.  I mean I can go on all day about this, and get bashed for my views from my friends and family, but its clear that they don’t understand my beliefs or listen that well to see where I am going.

But for myself, I know what I am looking for, but I have yet to see it, or have a glimpse of it, by can’t come to manage that part, so why start a waste it?  If I saw it, trust, I would have to switch up to make it work.  My treat to myself and to the world is coming in the form of a private blog series in which I intend to start on Valentine’s Day.  The series is called my Dear: Dream Girl, in which is my view of a what my dream girl would be like.  If you are interested in reading, it shall be right here on my blog on Valentine’s Day.

I am considering doing a part 2 to this blog post, a little later.  I feel I have a couple more things to chit-chat about.

PS: If you would like join in and share in on the fun and follow along aside myself and talk about your Dream Girl or Dream Guy, leave a comment on my blog or start a WordPress blog today and we can compare and blog about that Dream Girl or Dream Guy you would want in your life.  Oh yea, SUBSCRIBE to my blog today, its quite easy, just need an email.

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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