It may be a surprise to other’s when I admit I am not always busy, people just always catch me at the wrong time.  I am sorry if I made plans to do something before they decide to hit me up, but it is just how I plan my days, weeks and goals.  If I look back in my past, I have always been a busy person, but I also manage to get everything else done in my life regardless.  When I say busy, busy for me is just me accomplishing goals or experiencing new things within a set amount of time.   So too busy for a girlfriend? nope, It depends on how much time the girlfriend is requiring.  I guess in relationships there are comprises, but darn it, in everything there is a comprise but what are we comprising is the major difference.

If I had a girlfriend, or when I had a girlfriend I always had time for her, I wouldn’t be a very good boyfriend would I if I didn’t, correct?  But its the understanding of each others goals that makes a difference and the avoidance of drama and better use of communication that makes things possible.  I want a lot of life, and I don’t sit down and wait for things to happen, I go out and achieve them simple and plain.  I would expect my girlfriend, well I would like my girlfriend to do the same also.  I can’t speak for everyone needs within a relationship, I can only speak for mines.  I am young, ambitious, independent and determined.  I want to put in a boat load of work now, until say age 30 so my future can be simpler and very light of hardships.  So sitting at home whining and moaning and groaning about simple matters, don’t really impress me.  So I guess a great match for me, I would say is a person that fits my similar aspirations or can accept my motives.  I mean I can go on all day about this, and get bashed for my views from my friends and family, but its clear that they don’t understand my beliefs or listen that well to see where I am going.

But for myself, I know what I am looking for, but I have yet to see it, or have a glimpse of it, by can’t come to manage that part, so why start a waste it?  If I saw it, trust, I would have to switch up to make it work.  My treat to myself and to the world is coming in the form of a private blog series in which I intend to start on Valentine’s Day.  The series is called my Dear: Dream Girl, in which is my view of a what my dream girl would be like.  If you are interested in reading, it shall be right here on my blog on Valentine’s Day.

I am considering doing a part 2 to this blog post, a little later.  I feel I have a couple more things to chit-chat about.

PS: If you would like join in and share in on the fun and follow along aside myself and talk about your Dream Girl or Dream Guy, leave a comment on my blog or start a WordPress blog today and we can compare and blog about that Dream Girl or Dream Guy you would want in your life.  Oh yea, SUBSCRIBE to my blog today, its quite easy, just need an email.

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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