Month: May 2011

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What the hell is an open-relationship?

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Ever since I seen this option on Facebook and people using it I was confused.  What the hell is an open-relationship?  What does it even mean.  It actually to me makes absolutely makes no sense.  I think we as people are so obsess with labels and titles.  I guess out of trying to find a definition and meaning of something, out comes names and stupidity.  To me, it’s either you are in a relationship or out of one.  When has there been a word for a translational move from a relationship into a no so relationship?

According to Wikipedia, an open-relationship definition is: “An open relationship is a relationship in which the people involved agree that they want to be together, but in which romantic or sexual relationships with additional people are accepted, permitted or tolerated. To large degree this is a generalization of the concept of open marriage beyond matrimonial relationships.” – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship

But in the end does this even really makes sense?  Have you ever or have a friend be in an open-relationship and see it at work?  Is there rules?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

Tags: Polyamory, Polyandry, Polygyny, Polygamy, Polyfidelity, Polytrothism, Polygynandry, Relationship anarchy, Open relationship, Open marriage

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Drink This and Pass It Around [#Roulette]

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Drink this and pass it around for everyone wants to hear this or care.  I feel people spread things around (word of mouth) about foolishness they encounter and I guess think everyone thinks the way they do and care for what they have to say.

Drink this and pass it around, is like a lie certain people came about knowing and decides to share it with their closest peer as if the peer  really cares.
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Drink this and pass it around, is like an illegal and harmful drug that seems to got popular by the it/popular rapper of the moment, and cause you do stupid things.
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I think people need to spend more time evaluating the substance they are digesting then consume it and regurgitate it to everyone around, as if everyone gives a damn with the stupid things that populate this world.

Be Stupid

Do you know of a person that loves to gossip or copy and follow everything they hear that is going on, instead of formulating and stay firm to their own individual beliefs?

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LeTTing gO

You can’t always worry about the things of the past, because the past can affect your present and make you not able to proceed to your future. So just let go of the hurt and pain that is circling in your life. It may be hard, and most of the good things in life that are kept takes much effort so it not being easy shows there is value behind doing it.

Let go of that ugly childhood you had,
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Can you let go? Have you had a bad experience you couldn’t let go or still can’t let go of?

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