Attachment

I don’t get attach to people relatively quick, I know too much about people and how emotions work. I don’t know how female does it or is there is a bond or intimate feeling from just words that just make them make that leap.

I am not saying men can’t get attached to a woman based on just conversation. I would bet some females have some stories about jealous guys or stalkers to tell. But in reference to me, I love a great conversation and share thoughts, feelings, and positive energy, but I know not to get attached to others.

I am thinking people don’t have much experience of goodness to know how to better manage how to know what is a good bond and its longevity so they just leap at the moment or person that has shiny sparkles of something they never had and feels because that person never did wrong before is a stay bet. People change and they do that often without even knowing. So always have a safe guard, don’t commit to early until you have a great deal of experience.

To tell you the truth, someone being attached to me too quickly without testing the waters and bond, and really getting to know me for me being me over a period of time is a huge turn off.

There is a way to let go and free while keeping your caution. To the ladies and even men out there, the best way be good in any situation is to know yourself, love yourself and use more logics over emotions and not get those things twisted. Always test things out first to see if it is the best fit, never commit then regret.

Are you overly emotional? Do you get attached to something good or seems good too easily? How well do you know yourself?

Thanks for reading
Richardo