Month: March 2012

Postaday2012 · Project365

Facebook Relationships, ummm STUPID.

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I hate facebook relationships.  I think they are stupid.  It’s just a constant advertisement to me.  There are millions unhappy, lonely people on facebook already that hate or envy in the dark about others positive relationship if they know someone in one.  It’s funny to me because people go to the most populated social network to go create a relationship and then gets mad when they problems or drama goes public.

So many broken relationships and marriages occur on facebook if not daily weekly.  It’s crazy how high the numbers are.  I have concluded if ever I am in a relationship it will stay far from facebook.  I keep such things in private for better results.

Wouldn’t it hurt to find out about your bad relationship or uncover someone cheating ways via facebook?  Especially if others have seen all of the details unfold?  What happened to keep your business to yourself?

For those who wants to justify it by saying, “I am letting people know my status to ward off people asking”, or “I do it to inform or update my family or friends”, or even secretly “I do it so people don’t think I am lonely and not capable of having a good quality relationship” I ask, who the hell needs to validate your actions in life?  Why are so many people concern with what others think?

It so crazy and very noob-ish in my eyes that people to this day and avoiding to develop a strong amount of self-worth and educate them self about themselves.  For example who they are, what they can do, where do they want to go, and whats the best for them?  Some may look at it as hey, don’t you dare go and bash me on my issues and insecurities, we all tend to have some flaws, to them I say in this post, no, I wouldn’t dare bash someone, but this is just to make you aware and give you another ounce of fresh air to reevaluate what you have been doing as of late surrounding your life, your relationships and more on facebook.

Let me know what are your thoughts and opinions, I will be glad to hear them and have a conversation.

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Thanks for reading
Richardo

Personal · Postaday2012 · Project365

Hit the corner in Slow Motion

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Back to posting a day, my world is trying to catch up with me.  I see time flyong fast and me in a gasp trying to fit everything in before 12pm to meet my own deadlines.  But I am just getting over a hump of the year, well days of this month to be back to a structure awesome being.  I want to catch up with life and live it within it time, so I am going to hit this corner in slow motion, and see the sights.

Is time movinf too fast for you?  Do you need a slow motion area to catch up, bit be yourself?

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Richardo Wilson

Inspiration · Postaday2012 · Project365

Acceptance, Don’t Lie To Me

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JOE "THE BUFFOON" BIDEN IS AT IT AGAIN
JOE "THE BUFFOON" BIDEN IS AT IT AGAIN (Photo credit: SS&SS)

When someone usually says something to me in any sense of a compliment, I usually believe it is BS.  Maybe I secretly have trust issues, or I haven’t gotten over my past, or just maybe I really just can’t believe anything people say to me has any value.  I am not trying to say I am mean, but I give lots of compliments to others, but I expect nothing back from them.  They usually take it to the head as they are the “ish” or something, but I usually can tell whether someone is lying or so.

This post came about due to my boss asking me to work some extra hours, and to be it’s not a big deal, as most of my bosses always wants me to work extra shifts or time frames for them (I don’t know, but I really think I do), but to me, I just like working period.  I don’t like the feeling of just sitting on my ass not doing anything.  I won’t be learning, I won’t be exercise, I pretty much won’t be living a healthy lifestyle.

Either way here are some of the things say to me that based on who they are I just don’t believe, “hey your photos are DOPE”, “You are super smart man, I wouldn’t even have thought of that”, “Oh my GOD, how did you do that?, you are so talented”.  I find those generic even if that’s the personal natural and honest reaction or compliments, I guess I want something more.  I feel the right person has not discovered who I really am and what I really have the potential to do.

Sorry for the tangent, but back to the boss.  Just recently, like really recent (*smiles), my boss approached me after I had agreed to come in to work said to me, “Richardo,w hen you are here things gets done, and mostly better than expect or could have imagine, you are efficient.” as much as I think he was just being kind and that of a boss telling an employee to boost their morale to feel good about themselves, I actually felt good about those words.  I actually really pride myself on how efficient and effective I am to certain things I do.  Forget about all the results, but the progress of getting it down it what is worth more to me than anything else.

We can all run a race or take a test, but it’s how we got to the winning result that makes us a champion, for there are so many ways to cheat.  Like I was saying before, I am very self-aware and if anything seem too generic or commonly said, I find it fake to me.  Usually people give me compliments just to ask for favors or for free labor in return.  I so hate that.  I like to help others, but how about just being honest about your intentions first.

Either way, sorry for another ramble if so.  I planned this post to be short, but then my fingers continued to beat the keyboard to death, then this extended post with born. 🙂

I wish everyone well, and hope you find acceptance and self-worth or people find the true you.

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson