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Tired of the Nonsense: Bad Parenting

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Oh my how I dislike foolishness.  Do you too?  When I see nonsense, I have to immediately (shake my head or #smh), either way I really try to avoid contact with nonsense people.  It is sometimes really not their fault but that trait is very deadly around me.  I guess you can say my definition of (nonsense) co-side with, ignorance, stupidity, laziness, unwillingness, and straight up rude.  The list can go on and on, but the sub-topic I would like to touch on today is the nonsense of parents and how they interact with their kids.

I mean parents I put on the planet to raise their child, help guide them and lead them in the right path, but if the parent has no sense or not in touch with what the child actually wants, then they are hurting all chances of the child being on a good path.  When I say parent, it doesn’t have to be your direct blood line, but also a good older friend, mentor, teacher, grandparent, aunt/uncle or so on. But the main thing that hurts me is the way of parents exist and stay the same way and not try to be better examples for their children by showing that what they say makes senses.  Not because of logic, but reality wise.  They say go to school to learn, but they not teaching at school, so why the heck are we going there?  They want us to better yourself and learn to be on our own, but yet chance you all over the place with rules or bust in your room door with all kinds of nonsense (boredom to be right), but I just like Will Smith songs goes, “Parent’s Just Don’t Understand”.

Here goes the core, and ending, I dislike the nonsense that parents don’t prepare their kids better for the world, and tell them guidelines to follow in which they don’t follow.  It makes no sense.  I have a theory and a logic and actually working on a solution in the form of a non-profit, is for parents to better prepare their child for the true reality of the world from young, and allow the child to learn and make their steps in the world on their own.  If the parent is uneducated or lack the resources, they should make that a priority in their life to change that to better assist their child along the way.  Better yet if not, seek worthy and quality organization and specialized school with actually results and stats they achieves this task such as the one I am bound to create to give back to my community and people wanting people overall.

Things I Believe Parent should teach kids or at least start by 13 years old:

How you open and maintain a bank account.

How to be an pro-active person in societies and in the career aspiration.

How to write a check or money order.

How to stay way from DEBT.

What are STD and STI are and how they are possibly contracted.

How to open their minds to the world.

How to network with others and build a long-lasting relationship with friends and colleagues.

*I have so much more, to say, but my non-profit organization shall be developed and publicize one day on these issues.

Oh yea, I didn’t forget teenage and early parenting…Kids needs to stop having kids because to surely affects the both down the line if both are not well-educated and in tune with the role of society and living in reality.

What did you think of my notions?  True, real, or whatever?  Let me know in a the comments…

Thanks for reading
Richardo

PS: Parents, Adults, please step your game up for the children and the next generation, please.

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I don’t want to be her first, heartbreak

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Lately with the essence of romance in the air, or whenever it decides to come around, I always thought back to my earlier childhood days and philosophy of not wanting to break a girl’s heart.  Heartbreak is a terrible experience especially your first.  Some people may be prepared if counseled by someone who have been through or going through it, but for all others, we unknowingly race full speed ahead into the destruction of our hearts.  I use to say to my friends when dating, if a girl never been in love before, or been broken down within a relationship, I couldn’t date her because I didn’t want to be her first.  Relationships don’t always work out, just as how marriages don’t always work out whether it’s within a month or even 10 or more years down the line, you just never know sometimes what the heart wants.  The heart is such a tricky little machine and holds so much power to our well-being.  So imagine just something called LOVE, can affect our lives forever or changing our way of thinking, and make us do crazy things we couldn’t imagine ourselves doing such as: not eating, not sleeping, crying day and night, walking with a frown everywhere, getting fat, being restless, becoming stalkers, causing other mischiefs, and so much more because of a heartbreak.  Luckily for me I had the will power to overcome my heart breaks and maintain a balance stance with myself, but not everyone is that lucky.

If you are going through a heartbreak, well here are some remedies if applied well, and some goodies of song titles to check out, most notably checking yourself into the HEARTBREAK HOTEL, or some Toni Braxton Unbreak My Heart, or onto listening to some 808’s and Heartbreak via the talented Kanye West.

A few remedies:

1. Keep yourself busy, stay away from crying by placing yourself in places where you can’t cry.  But do try to cry it out your system before keeping too busy, because it might sneak up on you.

2. Share your feelings, confide in a trusted friend and share your views.  Get out a good rant and vent is always a good thing to a new begin and accepting what have happened.

3. Take good care of yourself, don’t abandon yourself, most people place themselves in a dump after a breakup, but avoid that and seek help you to recover and be healthy.  Do things you enjoy and love, and treat yourself well.

If you are not going through a heartbreak, then I bet you can think back on the craziness that you had went through and be happy you are over and above it.  Remember, don’t hold onto pain, just release and let go and be happy.

I guess we must go through it one day in our lives, just as failure, we must overcome and prevail, but I just don’t want to be a girl’s first heartbreak, it would break my heart to hurt her.  I just want to love, and love plentiful.

Thanks for reading
Richardo.

PS: If you liked what you have just read I have much more interesting and creative writings that deserves a peek like these:
1. Crazy girls scare me
2. Another Secret About Me: Sexy Legs, Sexy Lips
3. If she smiles…you might have a chance
4. I want a creative and spontaneous love
5. To Be Young and In Love

Thanks again…(drop me a comment while you leaving)

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There is going to be Hugging, Kissing, and Love Making going down on Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day is the day people will showcase their love to each and if content to themselves, there is no shame in that.  But there is going to be a lot of hugging, kissing, and love-making going down on Valentine’s Day.  Though a created day, cupid is going be on duty shooting people with those love arrows, and his crazy ex-cousin is going to be breaking hearts and making people cry and heart-broken on such a day that should be all about goodness and love.

Who are you plan you be, The Lover or The Heart Breaker?

Thanks For Reading
Richardo