TALK LESS | WRITE MORE | THINK SMARTER | ACT more PRECISELY.
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I am starting to notice…running my mouth less will get me so much more effective results. I also notice writing more words will get me much more attention especially when you add value. Just keep that in mind as you progress in works. Now it does depends on what goals are. Think about TV shows and fillers, we hate them. Sometimes they have to be created, not every show can be hard-hitting each and every time throughout a season or a series. So upon blogging or writing, there will be those days fillers works.
But if you talk/rambling less, but write shorter and position to act smoother it will lead to better results.
This is a lesson I am learning, and keep trying to get on point day after day, week after week, until I create a habit of it. I shoot videos for YouTube and write on my blog, but they systems are not the same. WordPress value words and more words, but YouTube values fewer words, a more precise stimulation. So me hitting the balance is a tough task, but I am learning and training.
Q: What do you think? Are you writing more and talking less? Are you working on adding much more value to your work than trying to say too much for quantity sake?
Ok, so there is this girl I kind of like, well shoot not kind of like her, but actually like her and is pretty interested. I mean I know the right way to go about it, but is it wrong to feel sort of shy about it? Is it wrong to like in the gray area of things and see if something will spark over time, or should I nip it in the bud and go for the answer now?
I can give some of the best advice on the relationships, but when it comes to me, there is a science to things before I approach things. I am never lost options in relationships and talking to women or so, I just choose not to waste time or cross a border I know that may not be reversible. Courting a woman has been out of my repertoire for quite sometime, so I believed I have really changed from my pass ways of doing things. I have developed a more unique approach.
I try to make each new encounter interesting and exciting. Personally I think, using the same technique and same logics is pretty general and too common. To ask the same questions, to go to the same type of venues, or talk about the same things. Why not enhance your life by doing something more personal and block the world’s influence on how you should go about things. This logic or philosophy could be applied to almost anything, how we cook, how we train, how we live, or even how we learn. Shall we all do it the same way and it suppose to give us different or more personal results?
Anyways, so back to the girl. Well let’s rephrase that and refer to her as this pretty lady, or pretty woman, for she surely is one. But there is a twist to the story, there is not only one woman, there is two. There is a pretty girl at work I think I like, there I got saying think. There is this pretty girl at work I like, and there is a pretty woman I like outside of work.
But the question remains, I wonder if she or they like me? So the answer is something I seek, I guess
What do you think of the post? What do you think I should do? Have this question or logic ever popped in your head?
Let’s admit it, it’s not easy to be happy and not everyone around us is happy or in good situations, but you must remember your surroundings don’t control you. You are in control and the boss of your life. So if you are in an unhappy place, here are a few easy steps/ways to live a happier life.
1. LOVE YOURSELF
Love is a very powerful tool in life and can be the driving force to your happiness. Most people try to seek love from others first instead of loving themselves first. In most cases if they are not loved by the person they become bitter or depressed. But when you love yourself first and happy about life, even for the simplest of reasons you will draw in more love from others and will be shining on the outside and in. Put on a smile everyday, and think positive thoughts, and never put yourself down. Always try to be a better you.
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2. BE YOURSELF
Once you are in love, or well loving who you are, never comprise that by trying to be someone else and trying to fit in. The best you is the natural you. If someone don’t like who you are, then you should not be around those persons. I don’t mean you should be going around causing trouble and if people don’t like that then they are not cool. I mean you should generally try to be a good person, though we all have flaws, people usually try to find something they like about a person and make it stick. So what you do, it what you will be remembered by and associated with, so the more you are yourself and doing your thing the better off to draw in real people who loves you for who you are. In return, you loving you, and being you, will cause others to love you and you to be happy you are being loved. Be yourself, trying new things, learn and read more and experience and live life.
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3. TREAT YOURSELF
Last but not forgotten, treat yourself. Everyone has things they like, so treat yourself once in a while on a regular basis with such things. It’s will be more joy to your life to enjoy the things you like. Though most things cost money and we all don’t have enough of that to go around, think and experience interior joys such as music, dancing, walking to the park, a slice of cheesecake, a good book or even talking with a good friend and striking up a good conversation. You will be able to laugh more, and be a much happier person knowing where you can extract your joy whenever you are down, instead on staying in a slump. Brighten your life, meditate, pray, do yoga, or even ask for a nice massage and soothing music to bring comfort. If it’s hard to remember your joys in life, go now and find a pen and paper, and focus and write down 10 things you like, make couple duplicates of the list and tape it around the house or so to remind you that there is always an escape.
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I hope my steps help you, and do hope you consider trying them out. Let me know what you think and any ideas you may have that keep you happy.
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