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Postaday2012 · Project365

Confidence and Commitment, And Dreaming Big

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Dreaming the hours away
Dreaming the hours away (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I believe to make it somewhere or to be that someone you always wanted to be you will need confidence and commitment.  I always try to help others be themselves and appreciate those who are already themselves and giving back to others who may need some inspiration.  For me to stay committed to a belief may be an easier task via my discipline and conditioned ambition to be great.  But at the end of the day it’s still a constant grind, not everyday will be your day, not every year will be that pivotal one, but the never giving up attitude and hard work does pay off in the long run.  Some people need more support and more belief from others, and the first step is to seek out others that does that.  Once you have a system and someone who believes, you should use that as your strength and break all barriers set before you.

“Be confident and commit to a goal.”

Here are a few I have done, and others people would like to aspire to do:

Be a better blogger/writer
Love more openly
No more cursing
Be more social
Write your first book
Go to the gym more often
Call a friend instead of texting
Try new things
Be a better listener
Help someone without wanting anything in return
Be less selfish
Be more supportive
Make the team
Find a great job
Graduate from school

We can all do something, but it all we need confidence and commitment to see things through.  This is just a reminder on life and without trying, how would we know if we would really succeed.

What are your thoughts?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

creative · Inspiration

Confidence is Sexy, Insecurity is Lame

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Why confidence, you can definitely do some amazing things in the world.  You can land a really nice job, you can talk to the sexiest guy or girl in school, you can even beat your friend in basketball without even knowing how to play.  Well maybe not the last one, even though the concept is quite simple, put the ball through the hoop and stop your challenger from scoring.  Either way, I love a confident woman, someone who knows herself well and don’t need no one to tell her she got it, she just knows.  She probably has been working on it and don’t stop until she is totally comfortable with herself.  I have a lot of confidence in my abilities.  After hearing no most of my life, I worked extremely hard to become secure with everything I do.  I guess I can say, I find myself sexy, (well hey, I got to hype myself up a bit right) but I find it so LAME for people to be insecure.  I feel everyone should have some thick coating from the inevitability of the world of hating and others lames.  I mean it’s not totally the person’s fault for being insecure, for there could be someone putting that person through hell and making them have a low self esteem or thinking they are worthless.  I actually hate seeing that.

I am usually the guy that help people build and gain confidence and be strong.  I want everyone to be strong and on a level to avoid bullying and pressure from the world.  I want others to see the problems and can create solutions and be totally awesome.  That’s where is falls on the person themselves to make that leap on board to overcome and be golden.  I use to see and meet a lot of BS people back in the days in high school and college, people who thought they were superior and better than everyone, but it was funny when they came face to face with me, Mr. UnBreakable, Mr. Awesome, Mr. Well-Rounded, Mr. Put-Your-Money-Where-Your-Mouth-Is, I was there to crush the competition and fakers.  Girls use to latch onto me like sharks (JAWS lol), they found me sexy.  There was nothing lame about me, and if anyone thought I was, trust me, they didn’t even know what I was packing.

But the moral of the story is Confidence is Sexy, Confidence is Power, and if you are not there with yourself, just make a decision today to work on it and never stop working on it.  Take a Psychology class, take a Logic class, read some self-development books and trust me after a while you will think different, be more alert, be more in touch with your self, and overall become more sexier then you ever could imagine.  In no time you will be leaving the LAMES behind, and set your eyes on the prize. (But be sure though, not to let it get to your head, and always try to help someone else out who might have been in the place you were at.)

Are you a confident person?  Do you agree with the points and advice I pointed out?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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blogging · PostAday2011

The Matrix of Self Doubt

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The day you doubt yourself, is the day you have been trapped in the matrix of a failed society. Don’t you give up on the uphill struggle for you may be stronger at the end of the battle. You need a bit of challenge to show you can grow and achieve victory.

Refuse the matrix and rise above and just maybe you can dodge bullets to then just stop them like Neo did. First slow motion then onto complete control.

Are you trapped in the matrix of self doubt?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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