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Excited To Be Alive

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Live Like We're Alive
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As my mother said, “some of us are put on this earth to bear a burden and others are just set here to live”, I am not exactly sure if that’s the exact words she used but, the point is that some of us struggle all our lives and others live carefree with no trouble in the world.  The carefree people live to use, abuse, and leave burdens on others while the others struggle trying to make themselves better, and hit with all the pressure and downfalls that comes with life.

Mostly the ones that struggle are the creative artists, and kind-hearted people of the world, but it’s how they can transform their hardships into a meaningful lifestyle or let go and do the right thing that is the major challenge.  Unfortunately I am in the category of a struggling artist and the person that is hit with all the burdens and responsibilities in life, but at the end of the day, I am happy to be living.

I try to help others no matter how difficult or how bad I feel, because I am alive, and I have love in my heart and I am able to breathe air out of my lungs.  I don’t need much from the world but the chance to live and help others be something I probably won’t be able to be.  It’s also good to find others struggling or thinking of giving up on the world and tag team to success.  It’s possible, so just try, and keep trying and love yourself for trying.  It will be worth wild one day, even if the one day is not tomorrow.

So stop hating the world, or the carefree people who fill the world, just be glad that you are alive and in it.  It actually really matters and you contribute to the goodness of life.  Think about it.

Are you a carefree person?  Are you living a struggling life?  What are you doing to change that situation or helping overcoming that problem?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

PostAday2011

Your Happiness, Your Family Will Never Understand and Never Get It

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Parents Just Don't Understand
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How many of us in life do not want to settle for less?  There are many, but who actually settles for little that they are worth?  There are many also, who say one thing and do another.  I told myself from a young age that, that people who settles for less will not be me.  I don’t care about the struggle and the pain, it’s comes with reaching your goals.  I am not saying it’s terrible of a life for people who have settled and not achieve what they wanted, for life and the world is a tricky thing.  Not everyone can and will achieve the same goals, but to be the one that does, makes a very big difference and is a big deal.

My family, very little to no time have they ever really asked me what I wanted from life and showed their support in my achieving such things, but they would want me to help them on all the small things and major things they can’t do on their own or really needs someone help to accomplish in which I always to at least 95% try to do.  I am only one man with big dreams, big goals, with no help, but yet again, just I alone can change possibilities for the greater good for others.  When I am stress and feel defeated, who do I lay my head to rest on?  Who is there to rub my feet or back after a 48 hours of no sleep trying to do for others in which others will not do for me, while still trying to keep at my goals?  There is no one but GOD and myself that works hard on those details but me.

Most people think about them, or their emotions, instead of asking, hey I wonder how this affects someone else, or am I asking too much of someone and not worrying about how they truly want to react to others request.

Sometimes your friends and family will never understand, they will never ask the questions you have answer for to make them believe that you are going after your dreams and trying your hardest not to give up.  They will just take from you, as you give to them, and time after time come back and wonder why you are not doing something they are actually holding you back from doing.

It’s like Will Smith said in the song, “Parents Just Don’t Understand“, for they really don’t depending on the family you from.  Ambitious family wants more from their children and Low level family, don’t see the point why the children wants to reach and accomplish goals in their lives.  I guess it’s just the times and the technology of today’s world that changes the sphere of events, switching from mere possibility to probabilities, in which possibilities are just a gamble, a roll of the dice while probabilities are more of how likely based on factors you will be able to accomplish this task or goal.

I find it strange how the same people who wants to be happy and need the help of others to be happy, are the same people who denies happiness and the lack of understanding for that person wanting to be happy and actually helping them achieving it.

Do your family or friend believe in you?  How many of your family or friends support your goals or what you want to accomplish in life?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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3 reasons to have a baby

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Let me start off by saying having a child is such a awesome thing and major step in one’s life, but for me there are some cool benefits in having a child.  Other from starting a family and being a awesome parent to a new born or even adopting, parent hood is a lot of responsibility and a blessing.  But let throw a little humor into the picture, and read my 3 reasons to having a child.

1.– so I have someone to hug when I am lonely.

Baby hugs

2.– teach them things in life like getting me a cup of water on demand, maybe even go to the store (lol)

Look at me mama! I can drink myself!

3.– make silly youtube videos with them and snap photos of how cute they are, until they grow up then all you can do is shout at them.  at least I would have captured all the cute parts.

Baby & camera

What are you reasons to having a child?  Did you try or do any of the reasons I have listed?  let me know in the comments.

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Richardo