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Tired of the Nonsense: Bad Parenting

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Oh my how I dislike foolishness.  Do you too?  When I see nonsense, I have to immediately (shake my head or #smh), either way I really try to avoid contact with nonsense people.  It is sometimes really not their fault but that trait is very deadly around me.  I guess you can say my definition of (nonsense) co-side with, ignorance, stupidity, laziness, unwillingness, and straight up rude.  The list can go on and on, but the sub-topic I would like to touch on today is the nonsense of parents and how they interact with their kids.

I mean parents I put on the planet to raise their child, help guide them and lead them in the right path, but if the parent has no sense or not in touch with what the child actually wants, then they are hurting all chances of the child being on a good path.  When I say parent, it doesn’t have to be your direct blood line, but also a good older friend, mentor, teacher, grandparent, aunt/uncle or so on. But the main thing that hurts me is the way of parents exist and stay the same way and not try to be better examples for their children by showing that what they say makes senses.  Not because of logic, but reality wise.  They say go to school to learn, but they not teaching at school, so why the heck are we going there?  They want us to better yourself and learn to be on our own, but yet chance you all over the place with rules or bust in your room door with all kinds of nonsense (boredom to be right), but I just like Will Smith songs goes, “Parent’s Just Don’t Understand”.

Here goes the core, and ending, I dislike the nonsense that parents don’t prepare their kids better for the world, and tell them guidelines to follow in which they don’t follow.  It makes no sense.  I have a theory and a logic and actually working on a solution in the form of a non-profit, is for parents to better prepare their child for the true reality of the world from young, and allow the child to learn and make their steps in the world on their own.  If the parent is uneducated or lack the resources, they should make that a priority in their life to change that to better assist their child along the way.  Better yet if not, seek worthy and quality organization and specialized school with actually results and stats they achieves this task such as the one I am bound to create to give back to my community and people wanting people overall.

Things I Believe Parent should teach kids or at least start by 13 years old:

How you open and maintain a bank account.

How to be an pro-active person in societies and in the career aspiration.

How to write a check or money order.

How to stay way from DEBT.

What are STD and STI are and how they are possibly contracted.

How to open their minds to the world.

How to network with others and build a long-lasting relationship with friends and colleagues.

*I have so much more, to say, but my non-profit organization shall be developed and publicize one day on these issues.

Oh yea, I didn’t forget teenage and early parenting…Kids needs to stop having kids because to surely affects the both down the line if both are not well-educated and in tune with the role of society and living in reality.

What did you think of my notions?  True, real, or whatever?  Let me know in a the comments…

Thanks for reading
Richardo

PS: Parents, Adults, please step your game up for the children and the next generation, please.

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Something That Makes Me Smile, Is My Brother

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Something that makes me smile is seeing my brother grow up. I guess the post should be, who is someone who makes me smile, but anyways I make the rules here (just kidding, but for real though). It’s quite a sight to see him break barriers and become or is on the lines of being so much smarter and better than me. He use to be in such a shell, in which I was just his innocence, but to see he grown now is kind of weird. Weird in a good way though. Now I feel could be some competition against me, but before he can, I have quite a few awesome techniques and life advise to give me. Boy oh boy this guy is almost 20, gosh, where has time went? I guess time has been running a marathon. Either way watching him turn into a decent gentleman, is something awesome that makes me smile.

What is something that make you smile?
Leave a comment, I would be glad to read.

Thanks For Reading…
Richardo

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Life can be so lonely

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Have ever felt so alone, like you need that lovable connection with someone or something to make your life more meaningful?  Well I think we all go through this at least once in our lives.  I feel this now, because I have accomplished quite a lot of victories and I am seeking more, more out of life and to make things more meaningful.  I guess I need to lay down more goals, more wants and needs, and challenge myself so when I do surpass these goals I will feel that warmth of greatness again.  I have my family and friends by my side, some quite distant at the moment but I guess as long as they are around and know I am also around for them, things shall be fine.  Most people I know falls in the lonely status because they are without a girl or boy friend, or husband or wife and live a depressive life, but I am here to tell you today, if you are feeling that way, rise up out of it and make it who you want to meet and not what they should do for you.  I know we think about satisfying ourselves first, but do that on another level, but work on being that golden coin to someone else’s life and by doing a great thing for someone, that person shall rise and become that great person for you.

 

Thanks For Reading.
Richardo

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