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COMING OUT THE CLOSET, DeClutter My Life

Coming out of the closet
Coming out of the closet (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In my quest to de-clutter my life I have decided to take some drastic measures. I want to throw away all these old things lying around the use with no use, and create something new I would need in the present and the future. I have a lot of dead weight in my house just there for no reason, material things of no value except for the fact I earned or obtained them over a period of time in my life. There are no need for these things that I don’t use but see on a regular as a place holder or as I would call baggage to weight down on me when it’s time to really make a difference in my life.

I want freedom and portability in my life, as if I wanted to pick up and go, it would not be hard to find the things that matters the most or would be helpful tools to help me create and be a better me. I yearn for more productivity in my life, that each thing I do has a meaning and creates and effect on mine or someone’s life.

English: what is life?

So I as a challenge to myself, I want to extend the control over myself and throw away something that is no long valuable from my home or life, and as well make it interesting by photographing the item while giving a bit of back story about it. I am quite the storytelling in person, and they do say a picture is worth a thousand words, so let’s pure on the freedom and start booting these non needed items from my life to make room for new more important things.

Upon creating something new, I decided to make it super productivity as I taking out the bad seeds I don’t need by de-cluttering, and now I shall add the good seeds by creating things I do need in my life. I want to be more organize in new ways, I want to express myself more, I want to fine tune my business and career, so I need to create effective tools and structure to bring those forth. So the new things created shall be in the form of tasks I have procrastinated on, such as a blog redesign, update my personal website, creative visually stimulating business cards, as well as do more reading via my kindle. There are a gallery of things I need to do in which I shall create and check them off my list as I go, on the road of de-cluttering my life and make a new, happier and happier me.

What do you think? Do you have things lying around for months, years or even a decade you don’t use or need and wondered why it’s still there? What ways would you like to de-clutter your life and make room for a new and better you?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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Caught But Not Captured

Goddess' Love Dance
Goddess’ Love Dance (Photo credit: Nastassia Davis [www.nastassiadavis.com])

The last time I dreamed of you,
I was caught not captured in your world,
Caught up in the thoughts and memories,
Caught up in the songs and melodies,
I was singing these tunes as I looked at you,
I thought I couldn’t escape, I thought it all failed,
But some how I found the strength,
Maybe it was given, with it I had risen,
I made my way from you,
I was caught not captured, for I escaped you.

Richardo Wilson

I Love My Music
I Love My Music (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
blogging · Postaday2012 · Project365

Lost My Charm

As Kevin Hart said in his recording breaking stand up comedy movie “Laugh At My Pain”, I just woke up one morning and I was just bad, all my moves were gone.  Although Kevin Hart was referring to sex when he said it and how he lost his moves, I am using that same notion today to talk about my lack of charm.  I have lost my charm.  Not only have I lost it in its most literally subject matter relating to say women, dating and a relationship, but also in the sense of having influence on someone to do something.

Let me just say, I use to be good, really good, so good just my presence would unlock locked ears and open eyes to see.  It has become apparent that I have lost this talent and trait.

I look at charm as a talent to inspire and to create.  In many sense its the great motivation tools to make things happen.  It is an appeal to make things run smooth and you to believe in whomever that has this talent.  Think to yourself on why do you like your current president Barack Obama, or even why you like some of the actors and musicians you like, its a certain charm they have over you that makes you feel good, and makes you want to do things for them, or help them reach a goal or support a decision they have made. 

All in all, I have lost touch of that in a relationship or havent seen that as a factor I have to consider via if someone believes you are charming then you simply that.  I miss that giving of a charm feeling.  Charm is almost the same as smiling or confidence to choose.

Anyways in the end, I need to get back to that place, it would help my career, it would help create a better atmosphere for everyone around me to want to be better instead of settling and struggling, and also help out on the dating scene, if I were to entet that arena.  But being charming is fun, and I can really see the missed opportunities and experiences due to the lack of charm.

Then again I actually think I am still charming through writing, thank god for blogging. 🙂

What do you think?  Have you ran out of anything?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson