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5 reasons why girls say they LOVE YOU

I Love You

There was once a time women use to be such a mystery to me but those times has passed.  Now I am quite informed on women and know my way around certain situations and reading their minds.  I my quest to figure out women, I stumbled on the reasons they say they say I love you to a guy.  You can agree or disagree, but I am sticking to my guns.  Here the 5 reasons why girls say they love you.

1.Boredom: Ladies know love exist, so to experience or try to experience what love is, whatever good deeds a guy does that they never experience, you call it love, so they say I love you to the guy to see what love has in store for them.

2.It’s a defense mechanism: women sometime hate lying to other guys who tries to talk to them, so if they found someone to love or a boyfriend, they will always use it to turn another guy down.

3.It’s programmed: Women are such lovely creatures, and they all just want some love to warm their hearts and beds, so they body tells them Love is what you seek.

4. Rat Race of Love: They feel a guy we own up and be with them if they kindly and sweetly drop the “L BOMB” on them.  Also if she can beat the other 10 and twenty of other girls a guy might meet, hopefully her nice qualities will make him remember where he heard the worth while “I Love You” first and settled down with her.

5. It’s Trending: Too many damn books, tv shows, gossip, friends, magazine with love and romance in it, that it’s simple a trend to follow.  Then again in actuality, she could genuinely be in love.  But hey those things comes and goes.

What do you think of my reasons?  any ones you agree or disagree of?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

blogging · creative · Inspiration

The Lone Runner

Lone Runner

Ever since I came to the United States, I have been a lone runner.  No team work, no one to help me fight my battles, just me.  Coming from a community oriented up bringing in which I had in Jamaica, with supportive neighbors, best friends, family and friends I came into a world, surrounded by individualism.  People working for only themselves and themselves alone.  I was confused by this notion and I was hurt to see the foolishness of how someone can be so close but so distant.  From the age 11 I told myself I am going to be different.  Even though I train and build myself as a lone soldier in this world, I will never act as such with others, I am going to make the difference I help anyone I can help.  I may not have a lot to offer as material things, but my core elements are superb at most and very hard to penetrate.  I always pride myself on my defense skills and have balanced I am.  It is not an easy task to create a hard shell and still be a soft inside to help and see pain and can know how to offer support and help to other even when they don’t know how to ask.

But with all my trials and errors, I always looked for someone to offer that same tiny help or boost I needed to actually become even a better helper, but there is no one in sight.  I trust in GOD and he have kept me going.  Even when I think I am alone and without any direction, I am confident he is by my side, trying to point me in the right direction.  Though alone in my pursuit to become great, at least I am trying, and never giving up.

Have you ever been a lone runner in your quest for anything?  Who is your biggest supporter in life?  If you can have anyone be more there for you who would it be?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

blogging · PostAday2011

Silly People

Silly Thing (song)
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I like silly people. I think silly people are some of the bravest people in the world. These are people who comes in the form as comedians, actors or just ordinary people who make silly actions or act a fool. The reason behind this is that, these people do this to entertain others or by those unintended silly actions the end result entertains others who were present as the action happened.

I myself fit in the category of a silly person.  I believe humor is a natural cure within the world.  Sometimes people just needs smile or a laugh to carry them through their day.  Though when I am not silly or trying to entertain others around, I quite serious about things, but I keep things separate.

So when you see someone acting silly, don’t be quick to assume they are stupid, but look at them as doctors of the funny, with the cure of laughter that can maybe turn your bad day into a great one.

Do you act silly?  When was the last time you had a good laugh?

Thanks for reading
Richardo