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The ART of SELF-CONTROL

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self control

Can you control yourself?  Can you control on minimize your emotional bond something on command or after relative factors?  How well do you know yourself?  These are a few questions people in control of their lives and abilities can answer easily.  We as people should work on discipline and teach our children the art of self-control.  It’s a very useful tool that can help you within your life.  Having self-control helps in many factors in our lives such as quitting a habit, ending relationships, knowing what your values are in situations, staying focus, motivation and much more.  When you are in control you can always dictate your outcome more towards your liking.  In life somethings are unavoidable, but wouldn’t it be a strength and great value to have when you can turn on or off your actions to various situations that includes your involvement?

Definition:
Self-control is the ability to control one’s emotions, behavior, and desires in order to obtain some reward, or avoid some punishment. Presumably, some (smaller) reward or punishment is operating in the short-term which precludes, or reduces, the later reward or punishment. In psychology it is sometimes called self-regulation.
(Excerpt via Wikipedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-control 

Let me know what your thoughts are…

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

Lifestyle · Thoughts

Heartless

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Heartless (Kanye West song)
Heartless (Kanye West song) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

 

For far too long I cared and was just a little bit curious.  For far too long I watched as spam, junk mail and other advertisement filled my inbox.  For far too long I have pondered an escape.  It was hard for me to envision a life without debts and constant rubbish.  As of today I am setting myself free.  Free from the world of clutter and unnecessary cryptic nothing.  I am breaking free from all that is just a want but not a need.  I need to see a change, I need to see a difference, I have climbed too many mountains, and tripped over few too many twigs.

 

Today marks the day I plug from the matrix.  No more hunt for the best deals and have them come to my email.  No more, subscribe to kind or plug myself to unwanted notifications.  If I want something I know all the possible ways to go get it, I am not lazy.  So why did I sign up for the constant updates in which became too much to manage and handle?

 

I have seen myself sitting a waiting for a change, an update, an opportunity to arise for the past couple years.  What happened to the how I even gotten to this point of knowledge and power within myself, in which I created my  experience and lifestyle.  Where is my simple lifestyle?  I don’t have the stress, but I can now reverse things I did and convert them to regrets.  I have found my pain music, I have found my words to speak and be free.

 

I have supported everyone the best I could but in the end, no one (close) has pushed for me.  I shall not continues these behaviors, I can break this habit.  I do actually have qualifications in psychology and have yet to create my life, the real life I was bred to live.  I need to spark my legacy in which very few shall or could trail.  I have seen my achievements, I have made my milestones, I been here for this and I there for the beginning of that.

 

I need to end the talking, and get back to what matters, everything simply, fewer distractions, more commitment, and a great presentation and delivery.

 

I shall be the great I believed I can be, the master me, The Master Ninja, in its true form or flawless-ness as I seek to be. (I don’t think much people believe I call myself a Master Ninja, but I am that.)

 

I blessed to have a voice, a pair of hands to type this message to myself, and for those who dared to read.   I am not in pain, I am just creating the change.  And it starts simply by withdrawing from everything that is no longer ultimately me, such as the past social sites, random emails, random queries, random brands, and random trends.  Here is to a new beginning.

 

Thanks for reading, (as always)
The Master Ninja
Richardo Wilson

 

Life · Thoughts

Denial or Acceptance, Linear to Non Linear Reality

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The things I crave keeps me company, the things people think I want without ever asking bothers me.  It’s truly a weird space how people make plans for me, and assume roles, but never set aside time to stop thinking about only how I benefit their future than asking how they would fit into out future equally.

note of inspiration
note of inspiration

People forget the real life aspect of what if this or that happen and how it will be dealt with to survive.  As for a post I recently saw, (in which I included in this post) the future isn’t going to be perfect nor will it be predicted, for as soon as you think it’s well made out, there will always be a shift or a change. Upon this happening what will be your plans be then?  Some people don’t see a day-to-day solid ground to walk on while building safety pillows and escape pockets for the troubles ahead.

Watch out for the people with linear dreams & expectations, because once the line is broken it falls apart.  I live in a non linear style.

Live life to improve, be better, adjust, and not worry.  When you live a pessimistic lifestyle or inability to change things and it eats you inside, you a unconsciously destroy yourself in which strikes a denial to believe you were the cause so you blame others.  If want to solve a problem and you know can solve it, if it’s beyond your reach, release and let go, in which I had to do.

What you do think of the post?  Are you build to blend or be flexible or you are steady on a straight line?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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