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5 reasons why girls say they LOVE YOU

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There was once a time women use to be such a mystery to me but those times has passed.  Now I am quite informed on women and know my way around certain situations and reading their minds.  I my quest to figure out women, I stumbled on the reasons they say they say I love you to a guy.  You can agree or disagree, but I am sticking to my guns.  Here the 5 reasons why girls say they love you.

1.Boredom: Ladies know love exist, so to experience or try to experience what love is, whatever good deeds a guy does that they never experience, you call it love, so they say I love you to the guy to see what love has in store for them.

2.It’s a defense mechanism: women sometime hate lying to other guys who tries to talk to them, so if they found someone to love or a boyfriend, they will always use it to turn another guy down.

3.It’s programmed: Women are such lovely creatures, and they all just want some love to warm their hearts and beds, so they body tells them Love is what you seek.

4. Rat Race of Love: They feel a guy we own up and be with them if they kindly and sweetly drop the “L BOMB” on them.  Also if she can beat the other 10 and twenty of other girls a guy might meet, hopefully her nice qualities will make him remember where he heard the worth while “I Love You” first and settled down with her.

5. It’s Trending: Too many damn books, tv shows, gossip, friends, magazine with love and romance in it, that it’s simple a trend to follow.  Then again in actuality, she could genuinely be in love.  But hey those things comes and goes.

What do you think of my reasons?  any ones you agree or disagree of?

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Richardo

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What the hell is an open-relationship?

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Ever since I seen this option on Facebook and people using it I was confused.  What the hell is an open-relationship?  What does it even mean.  It actually to me makes absolutely makes no sense.  I think we as people are so obsess with labels and titles.  I guess out of trying to find a definition and meaning of something, out comes names and stupidity.  To me, it’s either you are in a relationship or out of one.  When has there been a word for a translational move from a relationship into a no so relationship?

According to Wikipedia, an open-relationship definition is: “An open relationship is a relationship in which the people involved agree that they want to be together, but in which romantic or sexual relationships with additional people are accepted, permitted or tolerated. To large degree this is a generalization of the concept of open marriage beyond matrimonial relationships.” – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship

But in the end does this even really makes sense?  Have you ever or have a friend be in an open-relationship and see it at work?  Is there rules?

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Richardo

Tags: Polyamory, Polyandry, Polygyny, Polygamy, Polyfidelity, Polytrothism, Polygynandry, Relationship anarchy, Open relationship, Open marriage

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When She Smiles and Giggles

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It brings me joy to see her smile. Just the way her rose cheek puff up, as I tell her how beautiful she if. When you starts smiling, she can’t help but giggle, in which is so sexy the way she does it.

It’s one of my favorite things to do, making her happy. A satisfying feeling takes over me, because her happiness is also my happiness. So as she sits there in the couch reading one of her favorite novels, I shall go over to her, and brush on her shoulders and a gentle kiss on the cheeks. Or if after a long day of work, I will seat her down, rub her feet as a listen to what her day was like, and drop a few jokes to see her spark up and happy to be home.

When she smiles, I smile
When she giggles, I know its love

Do you contribute to your relationships and help bring joy and happiness to your partners life? Does making your partner happy bring you joy?

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Richardo