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Teach Me How To Love Better

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There are many things I want to learn in my life, and to “Love Better” I almost at the top of the list. I want to learn love better and more passionately. I believe I already have the tools and have done some great things in my past relationships or even friendships, but I am always looking to learn and be better at loving. We as people, are imperfect but some of us try our hardest to be better and work on become as full and complete as we can, I am one of those people.

I would love to meet someone who can help me love better. Maybe even teach a few new techniques and things to look out for and appreciate. Even just a guide of tips for better understanding and when to know where draw the line and call it quits. I always aim to learn in every new relationship I encounter new ways to love. In my past relationships I feel I have grown a lot when dealing with certain situations via you are dealing with someone new, and not everyone is the same. So I guess I am on the journey to learn and how I can meet someone who can teach me something new. When I say this, I don’t just mean a lover, it can be a friend or even a complete stranger as out of great conversation and relate-ability we can all grow somehow.

Do you think you are a great lover? Are there certain things you do or try that breaks you apart from others?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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I want a creative and spontaneous love

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I want a love so creative, that everyday feels like the best day

I want a love so spontaneous, that every time something happens I am surprised

I want a love so creative, just a minor tweak to yesterday’s love makes me smile

I want a love so spontaneous, that I go crazy not knowing where it will take me next

I want a love so creative, it mix and blends my favorite colors in one, utopia

I want a love so spontaneous, that it confuses and amaze my friends

I want a love so creative, even the most romantic wished they had tried it

I want a love so spontaneous, that even the best detective couldn’t figure out it’s happening

I just want a creative and spontaneous love that is YOU.

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Did you enjoy the poem?

Original Poem from Richardo

Copyrighted 2011

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Richardo

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Shall I admit I am too busy for a girlfriend, ummm NAH [Part I]

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It may be a surprise to other’s when I admit I am not always busy, people just always catch me at the wrong time.  I am sorry if I made plans to do something before they decide to hit me up, but it is just how I plan my days, weeks and goals.  If I look back in my past, I have always been a busy person, but I also manage to get everything else done in my life regardless.  When I say busy, busy for me is just me accomplishing goals or experiencing new things within a set amount of time.   So too busy for a girlfriend? nope, It depends on how much time the girlfriend is requiring.  I guess in relationships there are comprises, but darn it, in everything there is a comprise but what are we comprising is the major difference.

If I had a girlfriend, or when I had a girlfriend I always had time for her, I wouldn’t be a very good boyfriend would I if I didn’t, correct?  But its the understanding of each others goals that makes a difference and the avoidance of drama and better use of communication that makes things possible.  I want a lot of life, and I don’t sit down and wait for things to happen, I go out and achieve them simple and plain.  I would expect my girlfriend, well I would like my girlfriend to do the same also.  I can’t speak for everyone needs within a relationship, I can only speak for mines.  I am young, ambitious, independent and determined.  I want to put in a boat load of work now, until say age 30 so my future can be simpler and very light of hardships.  So sitting at home whining and moaning and groaning about simple matters, don’t really impress me.  So I guess a great match for me, I would say is a person that fits my similar aspirations or can accept my motives.  I mean I can go on all day about this, and get bashed for my views from my friends and family, but its clear that they don’t understand my beliefs or listen that well to see where I am going.

But for myself, I know what I am looking for, but I have yet to see it, or have a glimpse of it, by can’t come to manage that part, so why start a waste it?  If I saw it, trust, I would have to switch up to make it work.  My treat to myself and to the world is coming in the form of a private blog series in which I intend to start on Valentine’s Day.  The series is called my Dear: Dream Girl, in which is my view of a what my dream girl would be like.  If you are interested in reading, it shall be right here on my blog on Valentine’s Day.

I am considering doing a part 2 to this blog post, a little later.  I feel I have a couple more things to chit-chat about.

PS: If you would like join in and share in on the fun and follow along aside myself and talk about your Dream Girl or Dream Guy, leave a comment on my blog or start a WordPress blog today and we can compare and blog about that Dream Girl or Dream Guy you would want in your life.  Oh yea, SUBSCRIBE to my blog today, its quite easy, just need an email.

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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