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CONFIDENCE IS KEY and is SEXY

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Are you a confident person?  Well confidence is a very important of self for you to work on and develop.  As one of those old saying goes, “if you don’t believe in you, then who will?”  Having confidence is a very sexy trait to have.  It also showcases intelligence, self-awareness, strength and dominance.  Here are five things, I think having a good amount confidence can help with.

1. Assertiveness

2. Attraction

3. Low self-esteem

4. Security

5. Shyness

For one to have at least something in life that they are confident about will help you to have a happier life.  Whether is a talent, skill, work ethic, knowledge, religion or appearances, having confidence in yourself is sexy and have a refreshing appeal about it.  So if you are someone with low self-esteem, it would be a great idea to seek a life coach or a good friend or family member to be your stone who showcases their standout appeal you want to be apart of you.  Never be too shy to ask for help or assistance, for the quicker you seek help the much better you will be down the line.  The more you know about yourself, your limits, and what you are able to do if you put your mind to, will enhance your confidence.

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Confidence can be the decisive factor to a promotion, being on a sport team, getting that new job or even a partner in life.

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Definition:

Confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. Arrogance or hubris in this comparison, is having unmerited confidence—believing something or someone is capable or correct when they are not. Overconfidence or pre-sumptuousness is excessive belief in someone (or something) succeeding, without any regard for failure. Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it rather than because of an innate ability. (Excerpt via Wikipedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confidence

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Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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Postaday2012 · Project365

Confidence and Commitment, And Dreaming Big

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I believe to make it somewhere or to be that someone you always wanted to be you will need confidence and commitment.  I always try to help others be themselves and appreciate those who are already themselves and giving back to others who may need some inspiration.  For me to stay committed to a belief may be an easier task via my discipline and conditioned ambition to be great.  But at the end of the day it’s still a constant grind, not everyday will be your day, not every year will be that pivotal one, but the never giving up attitude and hard work does pay off in the long run.  Some people need more support and more belief from others, and the first step is to seek out others that does that.  Once you have a system and someone who believes, you should use that as your strength and break all barriers set before you.

“Be confident and commit to a goal.”

Here are a few I have done, and others people would like to aspire to do:

Be a better blogger/writer
Love more openly
No more cursing
Be more social
Write your first book
Go to the gym more often
Call a friend instead of texting
Try new things
Be a better listener
Help someone without wanting anything in return
Be less selfish
Be more supportive
Make the team
Find a great job
Graduate from school

We can all do something, but it all we need confidence and commitment to see things through.  This is just a reminder on life and without trying, how would we know if we would really succeed.

What are your thoughts?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

creative · Inspiration

Confidence is Sexy, Insecurity is Lame

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Why confidence, you can definitely do some amazing things in the world.  You can land a really nice job, you can talk to the sexiest guy or girl in school, you can even beat your friend in basketball without even knowing how to play.  Well maybe not the last one, even though the concept is quite simple, put the ball through the hoop and stop your challenger from scoring.  Either way, I love a confident woman, someone who knows herself well and don’t need no one to tell her she got it, she just knows.  She probably has been working on it and don’t stop until she is totally comfortable with herself.  I have a lot of confidence in my abilities.  After hearing no most of my life, I worked extremely hard to become secure with everything I do.  I guess I can say, I find myself sexy, (well hey, I got to hype myself up a bit right) but I find it so LAME for people to be insecure.  I feel everyone should have some thick coating from the inevitability of the world of hating and others lames.  I mean it’s not totally the person’s fault for being insecure, for there could be someone putting that person through hell and making them have a low self esteem or thinking they are worthless.  I actually hate seeing that.

I am usually the guy that help people build and gain confidence and be strong.  I want everyone to be strong and on a level to avoid bullying and pressure from the world.  I want others to see the problems and can create solutions and be totally awesome.  That’s where is falls on the person themselves to make that leap on board to overcome and be golden.  I use to see and meet a lot of BS people back in the days in high school and college, people who thought they were superior and better than everyone, but it was funny when they came face to face with me, Mr. UnBreakable, Mr. Awesome, Mr. Well-Rounded, Mr. Put-Your-Money-Where-Your-Mouth-Is, I was there to crush the competition and fakers.  Girls use to latch onto me like sharks (JAWS lol), they found me sexy.  There was nothing lame about me, and if anyone thought I was, trust me, they didn’t even know what I was packing.

But the moral of the story is Confidence is Sexy, Confidence is Power, and if you are not there with yourself, just make a decision today to work on it and never stop working on it.  Take a Psychology class, take a Logic class, read some self-development books and trust me after a while you will think different, be more alert, be more in touch with your self, and overall become more sexier then you ever could imagine.  In no time you will be leaving the LAMES behind, and set your eyes on the prize. (But be sure though, not to let it get to your head, and always try to help someone else out who might have been in the place you were at.)

Are you a confident person?  Do you agree with the points and advice I pointed out?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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