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What the hell is an open-relationship?

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Ever since I seen this option on Facebook and people using it I was confused.  What the hell is an open-relationship?  What does it even mean.  It actually to me makes absolutely makes no sense.  I think we as people are so obsess with labels and titles.  I guess out of trying to find a definition and meaning of something, out comes names and stupidity.  To me, it’s either you are in a relationship or out of one.  When has there been a word for a translational move from a relationship into a no so relationship?

According to Wikipedia, an open-relationship definition is: “An open relationship is a relationship in which the people involved agree that they want to be together, but in which romantic or sexual relationships with additional people are accepted, permitted or tolerated. To large degree this is a generalization of the concept of open marriage beyond matrimonial relationships.” – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship

But in the end does this even really makes sense?  Have you ever or have a friend be in an open-relationship and see it at work?  Is there rules?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

Tags: Polyamory, Polyandry, Polygyny, Polygamy, Polyfidelity, Polytrothism, Polygynandry, Relationship anarchy, Open relationship, Open marriage

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I Am Just Saying #2 – Why Have One Girl, When You Can Have THREE?

Ferrari 360 and lots of hot girls in bikinis.

The best things in the life comes in three, do you believe? Whether it’s three dollars rather than one, or three Porsche rather than one, or as this post is about three girls rather than one.  Don’t it feel good to have more?  You thinking to yourself, did he just promote cheating or juggling three girls, ummm yes I did you read correct.  We don’t just want one and be satisfied, nope, don’t lie to yourself.  It’s like have one successful thing, you can be content on just one thing, you apply for more and more.  So if a guy thinks in this logic of getting more, of what he enjoys, is this suppose to be wrong?  It’s a logical progression.  So because your motives are different from his are you suppose to be right and he to be wrong? (don’t be selfish)  Come on people, we all don’t have same mind-set, theories or beliefs, so stop trying to force your situation unto another, I am just saying.

I am just saying, having more than one gives you a better feeling of accomplishment.  So if one is broken, you have two spares. 🙂

What do you think of this post?  Have you had more than one of something and kept wanting more?  Am I just really pushing cards on you to believe what I am writing to be true?
Let me know in the comments…

Thanks for reading
Richardo

I Am Just Saying…the series

PS: I don’t support cheating and having more than one girlfriends.  Then again they are just girlfriends, when it comes to soul mates and or husband/wife or GOD, there shall only be one.  It’s just right.

*note: Anything mentioned are just thoughts and opinions not to be taken too seriously.

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I love my ex-girlfriend [DRUNK BLOGGING]

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When someone is under the influence they can do some crazy things such as reveal secrets, be more courageous than ever before (liquid courage), have relations with a best friend, even admit to personal things in their lives by telling the truth.  Also they can take it further by sending confessional texts, naked pictures to others or just by doing something very stupid. Whatever it may be how do we judge whether to believe it or not. Can whatever being said or done be real or just untrue and unreal, who will ever know.  Take a look at this weeks post…

I love you.

Who have done this before, calling up or texting a ex-girlfriend and admitting some truth to them while under the influence? How much the person receiving the call or text to judge the character of the person letting out random words about their feelings. Maybe the person was just horny and needed to unleash and figured an ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend in which they had history with would do the trick or is it their true feelings.

Example: (phone conversation)
Him: Baby, I miss you. I don’t know how I had hurt you like the way I did, but I miss you from my life…
Her: Ummm John, why are you calling me these hours of the night? Are you crazy?

Him: Nah, I am crazy, I am just been thinking about you and how we ended things off, and I just want to be a part of your life. I miss you so much. I am going crazy, thinking of all the great times we had and how beautiful we were together.
Her: Well, you should of thought of that before you cheated on me. Are you drunk?

Him: Nah girl, I am chilling. I mean I did have a 2 cups of patron and ciroc, but that’s nothing. You know I am good money.
Her: Oh yea well, I don’t know you sounding a little crazy right now…

Him: I love baby, and I want you back…You don’t miss me?
Her: Awww, (pauses for a while) I do miss you baby…

to be continued…

Well whatever it maybe I wonder if this a reality in my life. Do you think I hit up an ex-girlfriend and poured out my heart and soul to her in order to get her back? Have you ever done this?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

**[DRUNK BLOGGING] is a new series by Raw Multimedia to give the reader the chance to choose whether what happens or had happened is REAL or UNTRUE. Watch and Listen to Richardo’s Confessions & Testimony video series on YouTube every Wednesday, coming in April 2011, and also be able to ask him for advice or questions in his Q&A segment.

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