I am sorry but I have a bone to pick with the women on the world. If one of you or a bunch of you are reading this right now, I am definitely talking to you. Ok, let me get this disclaimer part out-of-the-way. If you complement your husband, boyfriend, son, brother, or even church brother, that’s not who I am talking about. That is what you are supposed to do already plus if you have love in your heart it is somewhat expected and appreciated, also I bet you get compliments back from them also.
I am talking about the average everyday Joe of a guy you see at book store, outside, at the gym, or even at the supermarket. They are who would love to hear something nice and decent for once. I know guy are always hollering in at you and even taking it to another level being disrespectful and vulgar, but not all men are the same. You can’t judge all men based on the random “NOOB” on a man you see on the street with their pants down, drinking, and cursing, while yelling out or starting out a conversation with, “What’s up shorty?”, “Hey you have a boyfriend, because I want you…(without getting to know you first or striking up a good enough decent opener like, Hi or Hello, My name is ….),” or even “Hey you got a fat butt or big boobs, I want to take you out.”
Although a man is a very visual creative and the primate side of us does tend to jump out at times, where are the efforts of a woman to at least go out of her way and try to just be a nice person. Even if it comes with harsh terms for a woman would then say if they do compliment a guy, he is automatically going to think she wants him or this and that. I go back to my previous statement, not all men are the same. If that is true then surely you should learn how to upgrade your speech and language, and respond firmly and kindly. A response such as, “I am sorry, I spoken for, I just wanted to give you a man of the world a bit of credit for being decent.”, or “I am glad you enjoy my approach by actually giving you a compliment I think you deserve or I just wanted to say, but I am ok, thank you.” There are many ways to say something back nicely, or if he persist, you can jump right back into your natural defense mechanism of blowing them off, cursing, ignoring or etc.
But please ladies of the world, do your part and try something new today, and give more compliments. I don’t say it has to be everyday, but at least a natural kind compliment per week would actually make a guy feel welcome and appreciated in the world. And if you are somehow in a bad neighbor or not many good men to give compliments to, then get out of your environment and go exploring a bit, and I bet you will see a guy worthy of a nice compliment.
Be nice and contribute.
What do you think of this post? If you were to reflect on your past, could you really say you actually honestly gave an enough to compliment a guy naturally without even wanting him?
Thanks for reading, my so-called Public Service Announcement, slash rant, I just want to make the world a better place, and yes indeed a man have written this post.
Thanks again,
Richardo Wilson
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I agree that we don’t compliment men who are not a part of our lives.
We would have to be careful doing so because most strange men would definitely take a compliment the wrong way and think we were into them.
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Nice post. I do give men a hard time from time to time but a smile certainly doesn’t hurt when a guy is just trying to be nice.
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I think this post is quite amusing. I’m amused by hold it seems I’m supposed to boost the egos of random males making them “feel welcome and appreciated in the world” with compliments he supposedly deserves since he has a penis.
No reflecting on my past I can’t really honestly say I gave enough to compliment to a guy without wanting him as it seems your perception is giving compliments to any male stranger just because he exists and hasn’t yet spewed obscenities at me.
I do what I am supposed to do and compliment the guys that earn it by their actions towards me ie the men in my life my male family members and friends not just any male because he’s male.
In my opinion considering most societies are male dominated and it seems most guys generally think they are superior to gals or have themselves on such a high pedestal were their only flaw is being (too) nice I find it off that a guy would need any encouraging to feel welcome and appreciated in the world.
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Thank very much for your thoughts and for sharing. I understand and respect your viewpoint. I also see where you are coming from with how most societies are male dominated.
This post was not written in that sense. In North America society in which I was writing within and a more minority viewpoint, what I wrote is valid. I wasn’t saying women must compliment men because they have egos and a penis. The male organ was not really necessary, but I was trying in world, in general everyone should be more kinder to compliments and encouragements. I have read more of that, men should always treat a woman right, and take care of her and so on, in which that was the case in a tradition sense, but we are breaking norms and tradition as every society develops.
So I was writing in a male point of view, that women as much less willing to compliment a man out a nowhere just to keep a balance and appreciation or acknowledgment when they see the opportunity to do so, instead of holding it in. For men, well respectable men would definite give encouragement to a woman when noticed she is doing something of value, or traits or so, just because it’s something to do to help push the barrier past only traditions of only trying to interact with women because we want something or trying to wed the lady in general or so on.
But in conclusion, I am looking towards a balance flow of appreciation and compliments between women and men in general in which sets a good example for following generations and in the eyes of children.
Thanks again for sharing, and I really do appreciate you spending your time to write such a response.
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