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CONFIDENCE IS KEY and is SEXY


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Are you a confident person?  Well confidence is a very important of self for you to work on and develop.  As one of those old saying goes, “if you don’t believe in you, then who will?”  Having confidence is a very sexy trait to have.  It also showcases intelligence, self-awareness, strength and dominance.  Here are five things, I think having a good amount confidence can help with.

1. Assertiveness

2. Attraction

3. Low self-esteem

4. Security

5. Shyness

For one to have at least something in life that they are confident about will help you to have a happier life.  Whether is a talent, skill, work ethic, knowledge, religion or appearances, having confidence in yourself is sexy and have a refreshing appeal about it.  So if you are someone with low self-esteem, it would be a great idea to seek a life coach or a good friend or family member to be your stone who showcases their standout appeal you want to be apart of you.  Never be too shy to ask for help or assistance, for the quicker you seek help the much better you will be down the line.  The more you know about yourself, your limits, and what you are able to do if you put your mind to, will enhance your confidence.

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Confidence can be the decisive factor to a promotion, being on a sport team, getting that new job or even a partner in life.

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Definition:

Confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. Arrogance or hubris in this comparison, is having unmerited confidence—believing something or someone is capable or correct when they are not. Overconfidence or pre-sumptuousness is excessive belief in someone (or something) succeeding, without any regard for failure. Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it rather than because of an innate ability. (Excerpt via Wikipedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confidence

Let me know what your thoughts are…

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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8 thoughts on “CONFIDENCE IS KEY and is SEXY

  1. Hi Richardo,
    It would be very hard to perform to an audience without confidence but its very important not to become so confident that it can be mistaken for cocky (do you use that phrase in the States?) because then people don’t connect with you.
    Some nerves about wanting to do well are a good thing, too many nerves are not productive.

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    1. Hi Charlotte,
      You are very much right on that terms. It goes hand in hand that over confidences does become cocky or arrogance, but I was writing this post on the assumption that people already knows that, but at the same point writing for those who don’t take risks or is a bit too shy. They both works for different people. For me I enjoy seeing some people as very humble, peaceful and bit sheltered, but I can’t say I enjoy it from everyone, for I do enjoy the cocky side of others when they know they works shows for their abilities. I always use Kanye West as an example. He was brilliant and humble in his beginnings and created an cocky and arrogance later on, for his work ethic, creations and more were genius to certain degrees and he is multitalented and who is there to tell him different.

      But all in all I do understand what you are saying. I get my shy butterflies when I perform in front of certain crowds.

      🙂
      Richardo

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  2. Confidence is also beautiful. Its a kind of beauty that I find very attractive in people. I like this article. Thanks for sharing.
    By the way,what do you do to turn on the “related articles” features in your settings. I would also like to do it on my blog.

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    1. 🙂 No problem at all…

      1. Go to your dashboard settings.
      Then
      2. Users: Personal Setting
      Then
      3. Scroll down to area “Additional Post Content”
      Then
      4. Check the box that says “Help me find related content….”
      Then
      5. Scroll to the bottom and click SAVE CHANGES.

      After so, every time you write a blog post, on the right hand side under your “tag” box, you will see a box that say Zemanta.

      In which gives you options for Photos you can use to add to your post related to the text and title of your blog post, also there is a SEARCH box to look for specific images in which you can easily insert into your post.

      Secondly under that box, you will have the choice to add RELATED ARTICLES to your posts, some from yourself as well as author bloggers on wordpress with the same TOPIC/TITLE of content your are writing to LINK to them.

      I hope this helps and works for you.

      LUV YA LONG TIME… 🙂
      Richardo

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    2. Thanks for the comment and stopping by. I felt this post was much needed on the blogsphere. I am pretty writing new inspirational post every Monday. I call it Monday Inspirations…genius, I know I know lol, just kidding. I just taking the simple things and making helpful to others and to remind others of the importance of the simple things.

      Thanks a bunch.
      Richardo

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